Embarking on a semester abroad at the University of Hertfordshire in the town of Hatfield, England, was not just an academic goal, it was very much also a journey of self-discovery.
While the unique and interesting courses were definitely a positive part of my exchange, it was the exploration of my own identity that I feel truly defined my time abroad.
After some reflection, I think that the decision to study abroad was largely in pursuit of self-discovery and personal growth. The prospect of complete independence and self-reliance was a big, motivating factor in choosing this experience for myself. While living in Hatfield, I had each day as an opportunity to push my boundaries, striving to be authentically and unapologetically myself. As a fairly reserved person with little confidence, I knew I couldn’t waste this opportunity to break out of my shell. The initial challenge of exploration and a steep learning curve for new things to do and self-reliance was daunting, however by the midpoint of my exchange, I realised that authenticity and self-expression were no longer a struggle—they had become a simple part of my daily existence.
My newfound confidence paved the way for me to make truly valuable connections. At the University of Hertfordshire I met students from many different countries in many different programs, all of us finding ways to study and explore. The friendships I made quickly emerged as some of the most genuine and supportive bonds I had ever experienced.
Within the walls of my university residence, my 11 flatmates became a source of unwavering support and camaraderie. As we were all new exchange students, I am sure I was not the only one forcing confidence in order to make the most of my semester. I believe we all shared similar mindsets, and so we formed an environment in which we encouraged each other and accepted others as they were. Throughout the semester, we celebrated each other's birthdays, attended events, and travelled together. While we each branched out and had individual experiences, I was so grateful to have such a wonderful environment as my home.
The friends that I made around campus are still some of my closest connections. We took every opportunity to travel, laugh, and try new experiences together. It was amidst these cherished connections that I found myself not only accepted but celebrated for attributes I had yet to fully recognize within myself.
The journey was not just about adapting to a new cultural setting (it was definitely not the same as Canada!); it was a profound exploration of my own values, beliefs, and capabilities. As I navigated the labyrinth of self-discovery, I found a new sense of resilience and adaptability, traits that would serve me well not only in my academic pursuits but also in the broader tapestry of life.
In the heart of England, I discovered that self-expression is a perpetual adventure; one I am continuing ‘across the pond’ here in BC. The memories forged in Hatfield will forever be in my heart, acting as evidence of my efforts in discovery. I endeavour to remind myself how grateful I am for an experience that enriched not only my academic pursuits but also my understanding of the resilient, authentic, and empowered individual I aspire to be.